Dear Slutty-Pants Fence Sitter, I love the movement of individuals who are claiming their fat identities! In our culture that promotes strictly emaciated (or ripped, as the case may be) and nubile images of “beauty”, I think it is so important for people who don’t fit the mold to stand up and declare themselves as [...]

Dear Slutty-Pants Fence-Humper, How do I make asking for consent a turn-on for me and my partner? I’ve read the zines, I’ve practiced, I’ve even attended an Eroticizing Consent workshop. But my awkward asking woes don’t seem to be disappearing very fast. It feels like the questions and check-ins are separate from the sex, instead [...]