Just the other day I was out with a group of people who had met my partner Hillary. Confused why a gay man would have a woman for a partner, one of them said, “So what is she exactly? Your wife? Your girlfriend? What?” I laughed and didn’t have much else to say.  I said [...]

Hanging out with some of the loveliest people in Denver, we talked about queer identity, anarchist movement, and the pleasures of flirtation. It was clear as we spoke that there was a resounding unity in our love of joy, pleasure and possibility. It made me giddy. I am so tired of faux-militancy, insurrection, and violence-fetishism [...]