For the past few weeks, Denver’s been wild over Food Justice. It’s hot! It seems like everywhere I turn, I see incredible lectures about reclaiming land for urban farming, food access in low-income communities, and connections between diet, health, and racial justice. As much as I love food justice, I also wanna know about FOOD [...]

Have you ever had that terrible feeling that you want to tell someone you’re crushed out on that you like them but don’t know how? It’s like a middle school nightmare you should have gotten over twenty years ago. Just because you’re a public sex radical with a fabulous collection of whips and plugs does [...]

Teach me how to love my cock. Simple and profound, the words sum up the suffering of millions of people taught to hate their bodies. In our misogynistic culture, cunts are considered open wounds and cocks are considered violent objects. Rape metaphors infuse our language. “I’ll fuck you up.” “Suck my cock,” and “You’re such [...]

I just finished reading Tristan Taormino’s The Ultimate Guide to Anal Sex for Women (2nd Edition). What a book! I learned all sorts of anal sex tidbits for female bodied people that I’ve never before considered. While a great deal of the basic information for first-time butt-players has been well-covered elsewhere, she presents it in [...]

Few people have developed the ability to hook up with strangers as well as gay men. Decades of repression and violence forced us into mastering the art of using casual signs to get laid. From hankies to glances, untamed desires have been realized as gay men have mastered the art of the anonymous catch. It’s [...]

So we’ve talked about anal lubes, cop fetishes, rape fantasies, and the connections between fascism and sex. But what about the basics? What about good old fashioned kissing. Not too long ago, I spent a long night sipping whiskey and talking to some of my favorite queers about smooching. What makes kisses good? What makes [...]

I just came across the following post by maymay on http://maybemaimed.com about an unconference that took place at the center in New York City called Kink for All. The event took place at NYC’s Center. Maymay’s article is brilliant and well worth reading. maymay describes Kink for All as the next evolutionary leap forward in [...]

Yet another person asked me the million dollar polyamory question: How do you avoid jealousy? I always feel a little disappointing when I say, “I don’t.” Our society, which bestows unlimited privilege and wealth upon a small minority of people while millions starve, is based on an ideological assumption of scarcity. We’re taught that there [...]

My sweetest friend Stacy, no stranger to sex radicalism, queerness, and other unseemly pleasures, made the following statement about queerradical.com on my Facebook Page very cool…you obviously aren’t facebook friends with any family members or uptight long lost elementary school friends. As I told Stacy, the answer is not so obvious. I’m friends with a [...]

The best sex is often the messiest and the mess can take a lot of different forms. Perhaps you squirt out your cock, gush from your cunt, splatter lube on your sheets, get shit on your fingers from fingering an asshole or piss madly all over a bed. Considering all the kinds of messes you [...]