Just as my fearless reader “Blah” reminded me that my blog should deal with sex and not terrorism (at least, sexless terrorism), a question came through the email pipe that I am thrilled to answer. What are your favorite books about non-monogamy? Well, my top three favorite books about non-monogamy are as follows: #1. Opening [...]

Tonight my main squeeze Hill is headed on a first date with a hottie hottie hottie and I’m going out with a fine man too. We’ve each had crushes on both of these people. We’re each flying solo with one. I’m super excited. A first date is always a bit nerve wracking (see my fart [...]

Skeptics of polyamory often snidely ask, “How do you have time for it? I’m just so busy.” These are often the same people who don’t have time to organize, to make art, to write, to cook, or to bike around town. Often, they’re busy cultivating deep knowledge about television shows, fighting with their monogamous partners [...]

When I was a kid, my Grandma called me awkward. (She also called me “it”…but I’ll save that for another post.) One of my past sweethearts, a dashing femme I’ll call FlaFla for short, accused me of being “the most awkward person in history.” Most of my hot sweethearts—awkward too! I had a wonderful conversation [...]

Another friend of mine got called out for not being “truly gay” by some half-breeder, monogamous homosexual who can’t get it in his pea-brain skull that faggots can eat pussy and dykes can suck cock. Too many radical queers get policed for their actions and desires by nitwit homosexuals vying to be sheriff of the [...]

I just came across the following post by maymay on http://maybemaimed.com about an unconference that took place at the center in New York City called Kink for All. The event took place at NYC’s Center. Maymay’s article is brilliant and well worth reading. maymay describes Kink for All as the next evolutionary leap forward in [...]

Yet another person asked me the million dollar polyamory question: How do you avoid jealousy? I always feel a little disappointing when I say, “I don’t.” Our society, which bestows unlimited privilege and wealth upon a small minority of people while millions starve, is based on an ideological assumption of scarcity. We’re taught that there [...]