Just as my fearless reader “Blah” reminded me that my blog should deal with sex and not terrorism (at least, sexless terrorism), a question came through the email pipe that I am thrilled to answer. What are your favorite books about non-monogamy? Well, my top three favorite books about non-monogamy are as follows: #1. Opening [...]

I just finished reading Tristan Taormino’s The Ultimate Guide to Anal Sex for Women (2nd Edition). What a book! I learned all sorts of anal sex tidbits for female bodied people that I’ve never before considered. While a great deal of the basic information for first-time butt-players has been well-covered elsewhere, she presents it in [...]

I had lunch with a dear friend today. She and her boyfriend are all about ass-play and they’ve just bought him his first butt-plug at Hysteria, a Denver-based sex toy store. They bought the Fun Guy, a 41/2″ x 2″, water-proof, vibrating, black silicone plug. I have a similar plug and while it’s got some [...]